Rim job. Tossed salad. Analingus. All of these colorful phrases describe oral sex involving mouth-to-anus contact. According to psychotherapist Lee Phillips, Ed.D, a certified sex and couples therapist, rimming can involve licking, kissing, and sucking the anus.
Before diving into rimming, thorough preparation is key. Safety measures include using protection, such as dental dams, to reduce the risk of infections like Hepatitis A, for which vaccination is recommended. Regular testing for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is also essential for both partners. Remember, if you’re not feeling well, it’s best to skip rimming to protect both yourself and your partner. With these precautions in mind, you can enjoy rimming safely and responsibly.
How to Prepare For Rimming
- Hygiene is important. Shower. Wipe.
- Anal douches are used to cleanse the anus and rectum before anal play. If you plan to engage in anal penetration with your rimming extravaganza, perform the douche 1-2 hours before you get busy.
- Use a simple bulb enema for this (a bulb enema is a rubber bulb with a nozzle on the end). The douching solution goes into the bulb and the nozzle is inserted in the anus.
- The purpose is to cleanse the rectum of any lingering poop particles. You rinse the anal cavity until the water runs (mostly) clear.
Safety Precautions
- Wrap it up.
- Clean your hole.
- Be prepared to at least come in contact with a little poop (Sorry!).
- Get tested on the regular.
- Don’t rim if you’re not feeling well.
If you get licked, get your butt tested. If you lick, get your mouth tested.
Rimming can be a pleasurable and intimate experience when approached with proper preparation and safety in mind. By prioritizing hygiene, using protection, staying informed about potential health risks, and getting vaccinated and tested regularly, you can enjoy this form of sexual activity while minimizing risks. Always listen to your body and communicate openly with your partner to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both of you.
