Providing your doctor with accurate and complete information about your symptoms, lifestyle, and medical history enables them to make informed decisions about your diagnosis and treatment plan. Honesty helps to build trust, ensuring that your doctor can offer the best advice and care tailored to your needs. Asking questions is equally important, as it allows you to understand your condition better, explore treatment options, and address any concerns you may have. 

This proactive approach empowers you to take control of your health, leading to better outcomes and a more collaborative relationship with your healthcare provider. Remember, your doctor is there to help you, and open communication is key to achieving the best possible care. Regular check-ups and open conversations about sexual health are essential in preventing many health issues. Don’t shy away from seeking help or discussing concerns with healthcare providers. Below are questions that you can ask.

What Kinds of Questions Should You Ask Your Doctor about STIs?

  • Based on my history, should I be tested for STIs, including HIV? Which ones?
  • How often should I be tested for STIs?
  • Should my partner get tested, too?
  • Are there any vaccines I should get to protect myself from STIs?
  • How can I protect myself from getting STIs?
  • If I have an STI, can it be treated?

What Kinds of Questions Should You Ask Your Doctor about Partner Issues?

  • I want my partner and I to get tested for STIs before we have sex for the first time. How should I bring up the topic? 
  •  How do I tell my partner if I test positive for an STI? 
  •  What if my partner doesn’t want to use a condom?
  •  I'm married and I assume my spouse is only having sex with me. Should I still be tested for STIs?
  • My partner cheated on me and I’m worried I might have an STI. Which STIs should I be tested for?

What Kinds of Questions Should You Ask Your Doctor about Sexual Functioning and Performance?

  • I no longer find sex (or masturbation) pleasurable. Why?
  • My sex drive is lower than normal. What's the deal?
  • Having sex hurts. What's the problem?
  • I'm being treated for another illness or disease, and I’m wondering how that will affect my sex life?
  • I'm having trouble getting an erection/reaching climax. What's going on?
  • I was told my prostate is enlarged. Will this affect my sex life?

By providing accurate information and asking pertinent questions, you empower yourself to make informed decisions about your health and relationships. This is especially crucial when it comes to sexual health, as discussing issues like safer sex practices, sexually transmitted infections, and any concerns you might have can significantly impact your overall well-being. Open conversations about sexual health can help you prevent potential problems, address existing ones, and ensure you receive the appropriate care and guidance.

This collaborative approach not only enhances the quality of care you receive but also fosters a trusting relationship with your healthcare provider. Remember, your doctor is your partner in health, and together, you can work towards achieving the best possible outcomes for your well-being. Don't hesitate to speak up and take an active role in your healthcare journey—it’s a vital step towards a healthier, happier life.